Thanksgiving has given rise to a new feast called Friendsgiving, a meal very similar to Thanksgiving, occurring around the same time, with the only difference being that it is celebrated among friends rather than family. It is a special meal to share with friends to celebrate and be thankful for one another.
Agape Feasts, a historic meal celebrated in the church’s early days, resembles modern-day Friendsgiving. These celebrations historically were before or after church and consisted of bread, olives, dates and wine. The word Agape means unconditional and certain love with no qualifications or exceptions and is the same love Jesus told us to have for our neighbors.
The Eucharist was usually taken during this time, making this meal centered around faith. It was a time to celebrate fellowship and support others’ relationships with the Lord and it was an opportunity to be thankful for our friends and people.
After sharing the Eucharist, many used this time to socialize and build connections. Eventually, Agape Feasts began to fade away because of their association with gluttony which was historically a serious sin.
This Thanksgiving season, consider having a Friendsgiving with your friends to celebrate and be thankful for each other and your time with your family.
Or better yet, have an Agape Feast to share your faith and build stronger connections with your friends.
